What is the best response when a pregnant woman expresses discomfort with intercourse but wishes to maintain intimacy?

The best response is to suggest alternative positions for sexual activity. This approach directly addresses the woman's discomfort while also validating her desire to maintain intimacy. Different positions can help alleviate physical discomfort and make the experience more enjoyable for both partners. It fosters an open dialogue about intimacy and demonstrates that adjustments can be made to accommodate her comfort level.

In many cases, physical changes during pregnancy can lead to discomfort, but suggesting alternatives empowers the woman to explore options that might enhance her experience. It also encourages a positive attitude toward intimacy during pregnancy.

While reassurance about the normalcy of her feelings and encouraging her to speak with her provider are important, they are more passive responses and do not actively provide solutions for maintaining intimacy. Recommending cessation of intercourse is not supportive of her desire to stay intimate, and it may contribute to feelings of isolation or a diminished connection with her partner during pregnancy.